Thermo 4 Life

Final thoughts from our Favourite Things series

Over the past few days, I sat down with each of my four beautiful children and asked them about their favourite things in the world. From teddies and waffles to obstacle courses and cloud wonderlands, I let each conversation be completely led by them—and honestly? I learned more than I ever expected.

Each interview started with the same questions, but where they went from there was pure magic. Some made me laugh, some made me pause, and all of them reminded me how rich and imaginative childhood really is.

Here’s what stood out to me most:

Alba (3) showed me the joy of simplicity. The answer to every question could have been “Peter Rabbit” and it would have been perfect. Seth (4) reminded me that fun is found in the familiar, and that Daddy really is everyone’s favourite hero. Ethan (6) made me appreciate the value of being a creator—with his electric marble runs, beeswax smells, and serious love for Clawsby. Julie (8) revealed how deep a child’s mind can go when you give them space. Her question to me—“If you could only keep one thing, what would it be?”—stopped me in my tracks.

And my answer? Easy. My children.

The Power of Presence

What I didn’t expect was how much these interviews would remind me of something I so often forget as an adult:

Children live completely in the present.

Their answers reflected exactly what was happening in the moment—yoghurt that was in their bowl, the trousers they were wearing, the smell in the air, or the game they’d just finished playing with Daddy that morning. They weren’t overthinking, planning, or trying to impress. They were right there, fully in it. And it showed me how much beauty we miss when our minds are always racing ahead.

There’s something profoundly grounding about seeing the world through their eyes. It made me want to slow down, tune in, and notice what’s already here.

The Power of Listening

This project wasn’t just about writing a blog or recommending our favourite toys (though we’ve done a bit of that too!). It was about listening. Sitting still and giving my kids the floor. No teaching, no correcting, just curiosity and connection.

We often focus on guiding our children, but when you pause and truly listen—you realise just how much they’re already guiding you.

What They Think About Me

As a final twist, I asked each of them:

“What’s the thing I’m really good at?”

Julie (8): “Dancing.” (Flattered. Also, slightly concerned about what she’s seen.)

Ethan (6): “Party.” (I do bring the snacks.)

Seth (4): “Yoga.” (Namaste, little one.)

Alba (3): “I don’t know.” (Fair enough.)

“What’s the one thing I’m not very good at?”

Julie (8): “Nothing.” (She’s my favourite today.)

Ethan (6): “I don’t know.” (Pleading the fifth.)

Seth (4): “Flipping your whole body.” (Noted. Will work on my acrobatics.)

Alba (3): [Blank expression.] (The ultimate toddler mic drop.)

Their answers were honest, hilarious, and heartwarming. And they reminded me that our children see us in ways we often overlook.

Want to Try This at Home?

I encourage every parent reading this to do the same. Ask your children about their favourite things—big and small. Let them lead the way. Record their answers, laugh together, cry a little (you might), and keep their words forever.

To help you get started, I’ve created a printable Favourite Things Interview Kit with age-appropriate questions for different age groups, plus a special section for your children to answer questions about you.

Download the free eBook here: [coming soon]

Because these days pass in a blink. And what better way to remember them than through their own little voices?

With love,

From me and my four little hearts